A solitude which
primes to depression.
Lonesomeness
is what furnishes us with dejection of the gloomy reality of what mantles our
lives, we believe that depression is seeing someone wearing a low-spirited face
filled with sadness yet the opposite might be the reality.
How many of
those that we feel are the happy campers and couples who we might consider as
goals being cramped with misery despite awe-inspiring admirers might have
nevertheless still loneliness curbs them when the cameras are off? These
excitements come in due to the preconceived notion of what we feel we possess.
Such as fans, plus wealth, but we are inept of owning the most precious of all
which is our own heart.
I can
relate this scenario with the prudent words of Sushant Singh Rajput who
committed suicide in Mumbai, an individual who was awarded as the best male
actor in Indian Film Festival of Melbourne in 2017, saying ‘No matter what you
achieve, what you want to aspire to be, or how famous and powerful you become,
the most important thing is whether you are excited about each moment of your
life because of your work and the people around you.
Quit
inspiring words but the question remains, are we excited to wake up every
single morning, or are we on the verge of seeing death as a sign of tranquillity?
Why do we feel lonely, Isolated, Despised, Unwanted, and Uncared for, or even
Unattended? Do we feel segregated in this world and need help? Look around and
see how many broken hearts, shattered dreams, dismissed thoughts, or even
condemned potentials that are being verified by human critics. Should we listen
to them, is a query that we are confused about, we lack the understanding to
see beyond what we can reflect.
The above
conveys us to the succeeding segments of a prevailing message from Sara Hegazy
- Egyptian LGBT activist who committed suicide in Canada, saying ‘To my
siblings – I tried to find redemption and failed, forgive me, to my friends –
the experience (journey) was harsh and I am too weak to resist it, forgive me,
and to the world – you were cruel to a great extent, but I forgive.’
The world
is exacting with no doubt, the only aspect we need to adapt as individuals is
we can only be at ease if we can appreciate our lives by seeing the world
through the shoes of those who are below us instead of vying with those above
us.
The instant
we can be grateful for our health by regarding those who are in Coma or those
who have paralyzed, is the moment where we can appreciate our limbs by looking
at how those without limbs can survive? If we can adapt this kind of notion
then we won’t appreciate our lifelessness, but more besides that is the point
of accumulating values…
By Dr.
Mohamed Bahaidar (Expert on social issues, Recipient of the most distinguished
award in the Middle East, North Africa, and Asia, Author of The Hidden Self,
The Point of Deflection, A Household of Bliss, Sparkling Hope, and Mirror
Reflection.)
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